30-Day executive mandate · IT leaders and executives
Lead with clarity. Not vodka.
Your first 30-Day is the emergency board session. We get you medically stable, take the morning drink off the table, and put a real plan on paper — fast, and without a word to your board.
You're drinking 4+ drinks a day. Your team knows. Your family is worried. Your decisions are getting worse. You know this has to change but stopping feels impossible.
Executive Sobriety in 30 Days — Lead With Clarity, Not Vodka
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Daily intake4+ drinks0, medically
Decision qualitydegradingsharp
Board confidenceat riskrestored
Disclosure to board—not required
Recommendation · STABILIZE THIS QUARTER
section 01 · risk register
The cost of doing nothing, itemized.
No shame copy, no rock-bottom theater — just the three line items you already run past every day. If they are on your register, you are exactly who this brief is for.
3 items · status: open
R-01CriticalOperational
Decisions signed off at four drinks deep
You've got board pressure, acquisition chaos, layoffs to lead. You're drinking in the morning to steady your nerves. By afternoon you've had 4–5 drinks. You show up to the 2 PM anyway and hope nobody notices.
Exposure · board calls, headcount, the 2 p.m. you barely remember
R-02HighRelational
The intervention you talked your way out of
Your family tried the intervention. You got defensive. You promised to cut back. You didn't. You know you're heading for a crash: health, career, family. But the anxiety without alcohol is unbearable.
Exposure · the promise to cut back, broken again by Friday
R-03HighConcealment
Trapped between the boardroom and the kitchen table
You can't admit this to anyone at work (board will lose confidence, your job is gone). You can't admit this at home (the shame). You're trapped and getting worse.
Exposure · no safe place to admit it — so it compounds in silence
section 02 · the mandate
Three workstreams. Each with an owner.
You do not need willpower — you need a turnaround plan you can actually run. Medical first, governance second, accountability for the long haul. No higher power required.
medical-first · not AA · not a lecture
WS-01Stabilize
priority
Get medical support immediately
This isn't a protocol issue. This is a medical emergency. We connect you to a doctor, a therapist, potentially rehab. The protocol starts *after* you're medically stable.
Owner · you + your physician
WS-02Govern
priority
Executive sobriety leadership
You don't need to tell your board. You do need to tell your therapist, doctor, and spouse. We build a support system that's actually strong. And we schedule your leave if needed (yes, even executives take 30 days for health).
Owner · you + spouse + therapist
WS-03Sustain
priority
Weekly accountability with peers who've been here
Not AA (unless you want it). Confidential group of high-performing people in recovery. They get the pressure. They're not judging. They're ahead of you on this path.
Owner · your confidential peer board
section 03 · board projection · the emergency quarter
The first wins, charted across your 30-Day brief.
Short and unsentimental. Before the year-long story, the morning drink stops and the 2 p.m. gets its sharpness back.
decision claritydependency risk
Day 10
The morning drink comes off the table. A physician is on the phone and a real plan is on paper — the first time this is structure, not another promise.
Day 20
Your first alcohol-free week in years. The 2 p.m. runs clearer; the team noticed nothing.
Day 30 endpoint
You're medically stabilized. You've done rehab or intensive outpatient. You're back at work but with support in place. You're not hiding anymore.
Illustrative cohort projection · adherence-weighted · not a guarantee
section 04 · peer advisory
References, confidential and on the record.
Not testimonials. Peer references — high-performing leaders who ran this mandate privately and came out sharper. Names rotated; roles real.
MHCFO · public SaaS · 51
“I ran the whole thing the way I run a turnaround: stabilize, govern, sustain. The board never found out, my CEO never found out, and my decisions got measurably better. That was the entire point.”
mandate held · 11 mo
DRFounder & CEO · 47
“The morning vodka to steady my hands before a raise — that is what I could not say out loud anywhere. The peer board could hear it without flinching, because they had all done it.”
morning drink · gone
SKVP Engineering · 49
“No higher power, no church basement. A doctor first, then four people who were ahead of me on the same path. Twenty minutes a week. It is the most leveraged meeting on my calendar.”
clarity · restored
Confidential by defaultNo board disclosure requiredMedical-first, alwaysPeers who have led, sober30-Day mandate · money-back if it does not hold
section 05 · matters arising
The questions you cannot ask anyone else.
Answered the way a peer would — directly, confidentially, and without the recovery clichés you have already learned to tune out.
Q01What if I can't stop? What if I've got physical dependence?
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That's why you see a doctor first. Alcohol withdrawal can be dangerous. Medical detox exists. You use it. No shame. Then we do the recovery protocol.
Q02Do I have to tell my board?
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No. You're taking care of a personal health issue. Like therapy or medication. Your job is to show up clear and effective. They don't need to know the mechanism.
Q03What about the high-stress decisions? Won't I be less sharp?
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You'll be *more* sharp. Right now alcohol is making your decisions worse and you don't see it because alcohol also numbs your ability to judge. Sobriety is clarity.
Q04If I go to rehab won't everyone find out?
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Some might. That's a calculated risk. But more likely: they won't. And if they do, you're taking your health seriously, which boards respect. Hiding a bigger problem is worse.
section 06 · motion to proceed
Call the emergency session.
A 30-day stabilization mandate — medical-first, confidential, and built for a calendar that never pauses. The quiz takes two minutes, asks about your real week, and returns a candid brief you can act on alone or with a coach — no card, no upsell mid-quiz, no shame.